Simplistic Thoughts

"I Wanna Dance With Somebody", an ode to Heather Fulfer

Posted by simplisticthoughts , Monday, May 6, 2013 8:52 AM

I can honestly say, with all my heart, I have been blessed with some amazing friends.  I could spend days writing odes to the people I cherish but for today I want to single out a certain individual.  I personally feel, we as humans, do not spend enough time telling the people we love how much they mean to us.  It seems we save that for eulogies at funerals yet by this point it is all too late.  Why not say living eulogies daily?  Where they can have an impact on the lives of the ones we love.  So this is my goal of the morning and perhaps the start of something more regular, even in my own life.

My living eulogy of the day goes out to Heather Fulfer.  For those of you who are acquainted with this amazing young woman already know the amount of awesomeness she possesses.  Spend just a small amount of time with her and quickly you will realize her hilarity, quick wit and immeasurable kindness.  If you are having a bad day or just need someone to bring a smile to your face, she will find a way to bring light to your day.  She is thoughtful of others and identifies quickly with your circumstances; bringing comfort without judgment.  She has been through more trying circumstances than a lot of people I know, yet she does not make herself a victim or a hero.  She walks through those trials with strength and steadfast assurance that her God will turn ALL things for the good.  She goes out of her way for the broken and lonely.  She cares for the unwanted and the elderly (which unfortunately can be both).  Heather has a way of lighting up a room with her presence and can bring a smile to even the stoniest of hearts.  Some of the craziest things pop out of her mouth, unguarded and untamed; sometimes having to take her foot out of her mouth but it is a characteristic I would never want to change in her.  She is spontaneous and always ready for an adventure...or mischief.  Need someone's house toilet papered or a drive-by mooning?  She is your gal ;)  Despite her fun-loving nature, she bears a deep authenticity.  She does not have to be someone she is not to gain approval from someone or fit in.  Accept her for who she is and she will love you unconditionally and walk loyally beside you.

Thank you for all you have been to me in my life, Heather.  I could not ask for a better friend.  Now, in return, I want you to wake up every morning and see all these things you possess.  Look past any insecurities, scrutiny, shortcomings and anything else that may cause you to alter your perception of who you truly are.  Continue in perseverance in your faith.  At the end of the day, Christ is all that matters.  The world and its opinions of you change from day to day, but His word never fails; His love never fails.  Give in to the purposes of the Kingdom and ignore the criticisms of the day.  Challenge yourself.  Live fully and listen to His still, small voice.  Remember the gifts, talents and abilities you were born to do, all you have are tools to work with but let Christ instruct you on how to use those most effectively.  You are beautiful, worthy, talented, strong and bold!  Always look forward.  Sometimes the objects in the mirror of our past may look closer than they appear, but they are just that: our past.  Love you so much and believe in you more than I can articulate on this page.  I leave you with two quotes, both I am sure you have heard:

"Never let anyone make you feel inferior without your consent" -Eleanor Roosevelt
"The Lord is my light and my salvation--whom shall I fear?  The Lord is the stronghold of my life--of whom shall I be afraid?" Psalm 27:1